Ok so I saw my T yesterday and she said that if I was unable to write that stuff for K (the person doing the assessment then the assessment may be incomplete. And so after getting home safetly well to my friends place actually sent a really long txt msg to K saying what I could about everyone and if she needed anythign more she could call and I'd tell her what I could.. she called before and it was really hard but at least the txt I sent allowed her to ask specific qsts so that helped a lot. there was one alter I could not talk about though and she asked a few times (by asking different qsts) but I couldnt answer so she said that was ok.

she said she would finish writing the report tonight hopefully and pass it onto the supervisor for her to ok it and then she will meet with me and tell what she found and then we would go from there..

amandalouise now I get why she was ok with me writing everything down so thanks for explaining it to me