Depends on where you live, but you are an adult and you should stop seeing the therapist. Your mom sounds pretty manipulative and toxic, and I agree you should see a therapist- just not one she (your mother, or this 'therapist') can talk to. Initiate your own therapy with someone who is *good* and follows the proper ethics and make it clear that they are not to talk with your mother. Then tell them the whole story, and help you learn to un-attach yourself from her.

ps There is nothing wrong with not liking movies. Not having a job is complicated. The economy is crap. It depends on your skills and experience. etc