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Old Dec 10, 2014, 01:17 PM
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There is no way I can tell if you are over dramatizing - but your feelings are real. And you really think her thought process in not right...after 10 years? Is there more going on? Is this the tip of the iceberg? If the rest of the marriage is good - it is worth coming to terms - just do not let your imagination destroy something that may not be true.
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