Hi Zorah

I agree with Candy.

Sorry about your husband.Mine died a year and a half ago. I would just do whatever makes you feel good. I felt guilty taking it off I think. For a while a wore his and mine around my neck on a chain. I wore mine on the other hand for a while too. Every once in a while I just wear it for no reason.

I stopped wearing it when I met someone new and decided I really liked him. I was wearing it on my other hand and around my neck and stuff and I decided it would make new guy feel weird so I put it away mostly.

Do whats n your heart. And dont worry about what other people think. Being a widow Im sure youve seen and heard increibly stupid things from other people. Most people who havent been through it dont reallly understand. If you ever want to talk PM me...

Hugs