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Originally Posted by PackerLover88
My fiancé wants to take a guys weekend to a place where there isn't much besides half naked women, drinking, and motorcycles. I love Harley's and we used to go to bike rallies together. Now he says that I cannot go and that he is going to make it a guys weekend. I hate him going on vacations without me as I am a stay at home mom and he already travels for work.
Do people agree or disagree with seperate vacations?!
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out of context it's hard to say. In and of itself it' healthy and good to have separate times from each other, but I'm not of a couple things.
first you mention a bunch of half naked women and drinking, I don't know if that's from your own insecurities or based on anything he's made you think that there's a risk there or not. without context i can't tell.
Secondly the fact that you used to go to rallies together and now he says no to you going making it a guys' weekend without any explanation as to why that's the case, makes me curious... again without context it's hard to say.
I would ask nicely for him to give you some kind of reason he wants this time alone, even if it's something like wanting time away from you for a bit, that's not a bad thing necessarily either. It would just be a nice thing if he'd give a little bit of an explanation or reassurances for you.
Again though a "guys weekend" isn't out of the ordinary or wrong in and of itself.