Thank you Hvert,

we have been dating as friends for months before we moved on to the next level a few days ago. we had plenty of time, i dont think thats the problem. i think the problem is, i THINK he now expects me to be different than before. he said he doesnt, but it is a fact that the relationship now is different than when we were just friends, right? so i have the feeling he expects more from me. maybe more than i am comfortable with, i am afraid. i dont know.

your suggestion to have a sincere conversation with him makes sense and i know its the right thing to do. im just scared to disappoint or hurt him. or that he wont like me anymore if i say i need more space (already?). i feel there is something wrong with me. how do you say to your new boyfriend you'd like to see him less often and kiss less???

....other than this the rest is more than fine. is there something wrong with me?