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Originally Posted by artemis-within
I am SO annoyed at my h right now and expressed it straight up and now he is pouting!! Now that I no longer have my "good girl" filter, I guess I need to create a "dealing with crybaby hubby" filter. Ha.
The upside to this is that since I also have recently learned that his feelings are HIS problem, I am not crying because he is pouting and making things worse. I am really loving the new me, to tell ya'all the truth. Dam I'm getting so mentally healthy I might not need t anymore. I can even type THAT w/out crying. Wow.
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I'm kinda sorta at the tipping point with regards to understanding that I am not (other people are not) my (their) emotions. It hit me like a ton of bricks when I stumbled upon that, but I still find myself reverting back to my old way-of-being quite often. BUT, I have an awareness of what's going on now! I've never had that before. And as my T would say, other people can put on their big boy/big girl pants and deal with their own emotions - I don't need to make their emotions my problem.
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Originally Posted by Elsewhere
So I accidentally "purse-dialed" one of my Ts...and left him a vm of 6 minutes of music playing while I was driving in my car (oops...it was loud, too). I can't believe the vm went on for 6 minutes!!
I hope he likes P!nk.  |
Please tell me you were singing along! I was busted singing along to November Rain (of all songs!!!) over the summer outside my T's office (my windows were rolled down and I was ROCKING. OUT.)