Lol, I am not seeking sympathy, I think. I just feel like it's "unnatural" to go too long without but it might be a result of a sexualized culture.

And I do have sex with myself, although not as frequently as when I have sex a lot (I don't know about other people, but personally I get much easier turned on if I am in a relationship etc., which in general isn't that often though). But my libido, even though it slows down, is not the problem. I mean, i doesn't "go off" for strangers but it never really has, but my problem isn't getting off (a lot of women have problems with that) or feeling turned on in general in certain situations. Even if I just put my mind to it, which sometimes happens ("it's been ages since I masturbated, my body needs it") I can get turned on and also get off easily.