Hello nice to meet you callmeocd!

I do hope that you and your husband both well!!

His theory is that there are givers and takers in the world and the takers achieve happiness and the givers don't. << Well...I think givers are happy too! (provide that the giver not asking for return!) Just think of when you're preparing some present to your friends, you feel happy yourself too..isn't it?

Just tell your husband..everyone has their own destiny and their own value in life!