Did you talk with her about what you and others found alarming? That would probably be an uncomfortable conversation, but i think its more important just to get used to HAVING these uncomfortable conversations, rather than putting an end to them, which i would say is more how our parents treated us. Or how we had to feel or react if we wanted to keep living with our parents - just put that thought out of our minds.

My insight for the week was that my family didnt care how i felt. Period. Didnt care if i was cold, didnt care if i was sleepy or hungry or if my teeth hurt, or if i wanted to get married or if i was safe or anything. All they cared about was if i obeyed.