I think I'm going to just give mine a card for the main purpose of thanking her for all she's done. She doesn't like it when I say I appreciate her because she feels that I do all the work. However, I think there are things she doesn't realize: like going over on time sometimes, being patient with me, putting up with me acting like a teenager, being firm when I needed it, etc. But, I'm having a hard time thinking of what exactly I would say. I'm hoping to find a card that says some of it. I did buy her something but will probably randomly give it to her at some other point. She borrowed something of mine that is a gag gift so I bought one for her to have as her own. She'll laugh.