My long term t told me that her mom, who had like 7 kids, used to go to the local donut shop at the end of the day and have a cup of coffee and a cigarette. She thought that was cool.

My parents never admitted they relaxed, so this whole concept was just weird to me. By their logic It means youre admitting that your day was hard, which means admitting you hate your kids - uh - it does??? my t keeps emphasizing balance in life to me.

Eta: red, i just got the poohbar joke! and tsk!

Mast - i am surprised i dont remember that scene! Interesting...