Welcome XZabitor to Psych Central. Sorry to hear you are having trouble on the road to independence.

From a practical standpoint, it is a good idea to assess what you have now and will have in the new city. It cost several thousand dollars to locate to a new city plus you may have no support team to rely on. That could make moving very challenging.

I am not sure what should be done right now. Do you have a therapist or doctor that you can turn to?

Here are some of the basics you may want to answer for the current situation and the possible city.

Money and resources
Secure housing
Mental and emotional Support, informal or formal
Friends
Transportation
A feeling of being home
Medical insurance

You can ask the above for the city you intend to go to.
PLUS
availability of housing
public support if things don't work out
the credibility of the job offer, get a written job offer before committing funds and emotions to moving.
Possibilities of making friends.
Availability of therapists and psychiatrists to help as a support team.

It would be advisable to consider staying where you are as a possibility until you develop the people skills necessary to get along with many types of people, especially if you intend to have a people intensive job.