How do I stop being so paranoid and jealous? I'm freaking out on my boyfriend, who hates the jealousy. If he's not with me I think he's with some other woman. I love him dearly and don't want to lose him because of my jealousy. i'm trying my hardest not to be jealous but nothing seems to be helping. I don't want to be his ball and chain...I want to break that cycle.

Please help.