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I feel devastated, terrible, backstabbed.
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It was a devastating, terrible, backstabbing turn of events.
I hope that you are doing a little better today.
First I'd suggest that you be clear on what you would want to happen.
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I hope when she's alone she'll realize what a horrible boyfriend he was and want my friendship back,
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You'd like to be friends with Elsa again. What are the pros and cons, then, of following Trippin's suggestion to say "Hey" back to her?
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but I know that as long as she is with him, she will listen to anything he'll tell her.
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Maybe so, but then I wonder why she texted "Hey" to you. Maybe she is still open to you, as Trippin noted.
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I'm waiting till the end of their lease where Christoph plans to move out without Elsa
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When is that? From what we have seen of Christoph so far, I would most certainly not count on him following through on any specific plan or commitment that he might have spoken of in the past, or might be currently speaking of.
Perhaps Christoph will have yet another change of direction and want to get back with you again. It would be good to be prepared in advance for how you will respond to such an invitation. Just in case.