I met a guy online. He told me he was kinky, and I told him I was open-minded, but I never knew what this entailed. He invited me over to his house where he told me he was looking for a submissive white female he could take vengeance on, as he told me he felt angry for what whites had done to black people (he is black), and explained all the violent acts he wanted to commit with me, hardcore a*nal ****ing, spitting on me, humilation. As soon as I walked in he whipped his **** out and had me touch it, then as I was getting ready for bed he told me to show him my asshole and rolled me over and pulled my pants down. I told him I wanted to go home and he let me go. Now I'm scared to date other men. I tried to explain this to my parents, but I didn't tell them about this because all they said was to stop acting like I'm some dominatrix and leading guys on because I think I'm kinky and to stop hanging out with gay men because it won't lead to romance. I tried telling my best friends but all they said they were grossed out and "lesson learned." I don't know what to do. I'm just angry and scared.