I am saying that. I am not saying that it means that you should look for a partner on here - just that their presence on here is at least some reflection on the world outside you... a confirmation that such guys are findable. They exist.

I have once been invited to a curious meetup. I have no idea how I got matched up with that because I am white and not Asian. But the idea itself made sense. It was a meetup for Asian men and women who are at least 40 and who want to get married and not engage in chasing and play. Just serious interest only. If such meetup existed (granted, Asian people might be on average more family-oriented, but still), that means that enough people got fed up the way you got fed up, right? So such people exist.