I agree, do what is comfortable and don't feel guilty trying something new with the ring. I know of some who have melted it down to a charm or such... or just put it away. Do you still use "Mrs." ? Then wearing the ring goes with that doesn't it? But many ppl who are married don't wear rings, so it's really just a matter of choice.
I agree with justsign... as to having heard incredibly stupid things said by other ppl!

to you all