I would try local groups, local meetups, and if online dating, only marriage-minded men (I think such sites exist), plus, some groups that are not for dating but would expose you to people with similar interests, such as a book club. Avoid meetups where there are no men (beading or crocheting meetups would not be good idea). If you are a college graduate and live not too far from where you went to college, connect with the alumni association and sign up for their updates and announcements. There may be events where people mingle. Some alumni associations offer events specifically for singles.