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Originally Posted by eskielover
From my point of view.....I don't think you should feel guilty. If there was a huge problem that caused a huge problem in both your lives.....then it would be nice to have communication regarding the situation & to give the other person a better understanding of what was going on & why & let them know that you have a better understanding of what was involved in the situation also.
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I have tried to contact one person with whom I had a "situation". I only got diagnosed after the "situation" and tried, after two years, contacting the person again because I wanted to explain everything and apologize again. The person removed all contact from me, ignored me and will hate me for the rest of my life. The feeling really sucks because all I want to do is make things right and I'll never get the chance. I didn't even know I was "sick" and I didn't actually do anything wrong. I simply came off as too eager perhaps and now this person hates me forever. I didn't know the right social cues, what to say, etc. I just jumped in the deep end. Oh well, guess I deserve to drown then.