I feel for you DrSkipper. I am very happy that he let you go and you are safe. Most people online are not the same as in reality...people dismiss reality and act in ways that they wouldn't do in their daily lives. I agree with Angelique67, that any meeting should first be in public where you can get to know the person. Meeting with a guy for the first time to his house to have relatively rough sex seems scary to me, especially when you have no clue as to his limits.

I am truly thankful you are okay, but I strongly recommend caution before attempting something like that again. Perhaps the next time you could tell someone you trust where you are going and who you are seeing so that they can take action if you don't return home on time.