This is all a lot for me to process and handle. Because of previous incidents having her here is causing me to be triggered. I am extremely early in to receiving help with my mental issues and have no tools to work with. My ex has physical problems and it has been an extremely long frustrating road with l&i. He has always paid me back in the past and will when he starts getting money again. We wanted to raise our last set of twins together. It is hurting me that none of our children are talking to him and vice versa. The 14 yr old twins have no choice because we share a house. But they avoid him as much as possible. His gf is my bio brother to be ex wife and has been here since mid Sept. My bio brother asked us if we would help her get on her feet. She took advantage of situation and moved in.
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