I really don't think a better, more experienced lover is the answer…I've been with more experienced and it's just as bad, maybe worse because there wasn't the emotional connection. I love him and he seems willing to learn and become better, so why would I go have sex with someone I don't love? Besides, he's the only person that I've even slightly enjoyed kissing, so there's so much potential there.

I think that's the whole problem anyway; he's unable to say "I love you." I want to assume it's because we haven't been together that long, but I've been wondering if he's incapable of admitting it. Everything he says and does screams love to me.

So, as of now, we've decided to back off the sexual side of the relationship and hopefully we can stick to that. We'll just spend time to together and hopefully it will help him figure out his feelings.