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Old Dec 12, 2014, 04:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Petra5ed View Post
You're right, my thinking is very black and white now. About whether I meant caring or love I think I mean love, and he quite possibly doesn't love me, legitimately it's possible no one loves me or ever has. I'm sure he cares on some level, but there's a range of caring. I care about my clients, but not much, not to the extent they're on my mind more than when I'm working for them.
I don't know you personally but from your postings on here you seem very sensitive and likable- so I'm sure you're lovable

It's true your therapist may not love you, or love you in the way you'd like him to. But that doesn't mean he likes and cares about you. And it has no bearing on how lovable you are to others. Remember he doesn't know you as a whole person. He only know the part of you he sees in therapy.

Last edited by Lauliza; Dec 12, 2014 at 06:25 PM.
Thanks for this!
Petra5ed