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Old Dec 12, 2014, 06:19 PM
mountainclimber mountainclimber is offline
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So, a while back I mentioned that I had taken a break-I felt T was distant and kind of phoning it in. T emailed to ask me to come in to talk about counter transference. After some thought I did go in and heard about how I was triggering mother memories and that T was back in therapy because of this. T wanted to continue because it will help T's own work and because in the past we had "good flow." I was surprised and really thrown but agreed to schedule an appt and T was happy I hadn't "run away." Well, after sleeping on it I decided not to continue and left a very short and to the point email saying I wanted to discontinue therapy and please cancel appt. T did not respond in any way, not even to acknowledge the email. I am surprisingly hurt by this and can't seem to let it go. I had thoughts about maybe I was too harsh, rude, insensitive, but still I would have thought an acknowledgement would have been professional, and I could feel some closure. We had been working together for two years. Thoughts anyone?

Last edited by mountainclimber; Dec 12, 2014 at 06:22 PM. Reason: Added something- typo