For example, I almost didn't tell her about how I am jealous of some foster youth she works with whom she threw a Halloween party for. I didn't want her to feel bad or to feel like I was asking for too much, or hinting at the idea that I'm not grateful for what she has done for me. And since I know it's not allowed for me to do something like that with her, I didn't want to bring it up. She is encouraging me to talk about that sort of thing, when I am worried it might step on her boundaries or when I think or know it's "not allowed".