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Originally Posted by HazelGirl
I guess I'm not being very clear. My T is trying to encourage me to drop my boundaries a little and not try so hard to protect her from me. I refuse to talk to her about things that I think might possibly step on her boundaries and she is encouraging me to trust her to maintain her own boundaries and allow myself to bring whatever I want to into therapy.
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You are the only other person besides myself that I have heard say that they try to protect their Ts from them. When I try to talk about this with my T she says things like "you won't break me" "you do not bother me" "you do not need to protect me". It makes me feel good when she says those things but it doesn't make me stop feeling like I need to protect her from me. I'm sorry I don't have any advise. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone
