on wrongplanet there are probably a lot lurking, but unable to respond. but the way you respond and explain, isnt foreign to us on the spectrum. makes things more clear and gives more of the bigger picture.

.... ive begun to wonder if we might be talking of the same company here.. are they really specialized in autism, or is it kind of one of those places thats a mixes all diagnosis, and not just limited to those on the spectrum?

can you get a card from the post office and fill it out of a changed address? then they will take all the mail going to your old address, to your new address.?

hmm.... i wonder what they meant by "grass you up to the pigs", i take it as it means a not pleasant thing tho.
legally they may not be allowed to step in and help even if they wanted to, due to the case and it could add issues for both them and you if they did.

it may be more acceptable if you have a male support person. usually it is still seen as same sexes are safe with eachother. and theres not that crush or love that can arise out of miscommunication. so that would take that worry of miscommunication out of it, and there wouldnt be that added option of asking out on a date, or anything that may be thought as doing that.

if you have another female as a support person, maybe "clearing the air" up front, being the second or third sentence in the greeting process, and being clear that you need her to clearly state any and all boundaries that you two have. that way there isnt that accidental stepping over an uncertain and invisible boundary. and ask her to write them down if you arent able to clearly remember them later on, that way you can always refer back to these boundaries that are also known as rules.

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