Trust takes time. If you trust someone too fast, then you have yet another issue. How do you know if you will work well with your T? You just have to go off instinct. New relationships are difficult; they take time.

Now, I did force myself to make my T more important than what she was. I needed to. I have Medi-Cal, so I don't really have the luxury of "shopping" for Ts. That and I really needed help. This allowed me to connect faster, bond faster, but it did not help me trust faster.

I'm curious though, as others have mentioned, why is there such a rush?