Trying to separate past situation is very difficult bc of my bpd. The someone is my ex that has known me for the past 30 yrs. We currently share a house and have done so for the past 10 yrs. There's been 4 yrs where we haven't shared a home raising our children. He wants to help me and has said he will. I don't know how to explain I need to see in order to believe. With the situation now someone or several will be left with hurting from broken heart.