well i told him, if he says that to me...then the same needs to be for him. its not fair to me. he text me today, we talked & he said it was hard for him. i had said that i need to accept that fact that we won't be together & his response was "you don't know that", then i told him that he said he wasn't in love with me, there's nooo bouncing back from that & he got upset. this is stressful..