I have attachment issues. I've had a therapist who encouraged out of session contact (email and phone), and she wasn't very good. The one I'm seeing now hasn't said one way or the other, but she never talks about all this boundary stuff I hear everyone else going through. I feel a lot more secure not having between session contact. I think the difference for me is that the one I see now is a very professional, but not at all cold or unfriendly. It just feels good. Not sure how to explain it. You know it when you encounter it.