I am sorry you were disappointed in the chat room. It is important to understand the ages and capabilities of the others in the room with you though. When you get the type of responses you are discribing what that is saying is "I don't know how to help you and comfort you". People will give out suggestions like what you have discribed, they "try" to be helpful in making those suggestions. However, when you say how you can't do any of the things suggested and keep asking for more, unfortunately if another person doesn't know what else to say, they can get "frustrated".

Remember, most of the members in those chat rooms are struggling themselves and none of them are "professionals" either.

Sorry you are struggling so much though, yeah, it can be a challenge and lonely. I take it one day at a time, and to be honest, I have had many challenging days myself too.

((Caring Hugs))
OE