I know it sucks WS, but as someone who has continued with a former couples' counselor as an individual counselor I think it really might be best for your relationship of you have your own T who is just yours. Things have worked out well for me with my T but my marriage is over. There's a lot of room there for jealousy and guilt...
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'...
At poor peace I sing
To you strangers (though song
Is a burning and crested act,
The fire of birds in
The world's turning wood,
For my sawn, splay sounds,)
...'
Dylan Thomas, Author's Prologue
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