This is what he tells you, and so you thought that when you got there that the two of you were going to have tea and cookies?

The issue here is you, not him. He told you, he warned you. He didn't trick you, or lie to you, he didn't abuse you.

I believe in self accountability. It is true that there are people who are fractured, people who have issues in which they cannot control. I don't see here where you had no control.

You weren't a victim. My advise to you would be to use some common sense.