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Originally Posted by SqrqhJean
On the one hand I feel dumb for getting upset over this. On the other hand I can't deny it sorta irks me.
I've been dating this guy for a few months. I posted a "<3" on his wall. That is all. Check back awhile later to find it was gone. I tell him "I was trying to be sweet by posting on your wall, sorry" & he says "I thought it was sweet. It didn't bother me." I say "It surprised me you deleted it" & he says "What do you mean? I didn't delete it."
Facebook does mess up sometimes. Not sure if I believe him or not. He's really sweet. We txt a lot and see each other regularly. I know he has a couple friends that are girls which I didn't think too much about until now.
I just feel like someone who is proud to have you would reply and/or not delete the post. A lot of people say "Facebook is dumb" but I feel like if they really thought that they wouldn't use it. At any rate I deactivated my Facebook because no one on there is worth me getting upset over. Am I overreacting? Lol thanks.
Wish I was a human lie detector.
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he said he didn't delete it. The fact that you're assuming the worst and that he indeed did delete it anyway and is lying says a lot about you and your trust in him. You say a few things as if you care about him but the fact that it wasn't enough that he said he didn't delete it speaks otherwise about your security in him.
If your relationship was good, with mutual trust, you'd be like "well that's weird fb must have effed up again" but you're assuming he is lying by posting about it and being as upset as you are. Honestly you should ask yourself why you don't trust him and question whether you want to be with someone you can't believe their word on things.
Just my 2c. Without context as to the rest of your relationship with him I cannot say whether you're overreacting or not, because if he indeed is untrustworthy that says a whole lot more than whether you should be upset at the post being removed.