Im right there with you. I was tired of supporting my GF of not having a job for years and supporting her and living together and then going out and taking advantage of other guys too. And lie to me about them and her where abouts. I cut everyone out and I am making my life the way I want it now. It is emotionally killer. It hurts. I cut off everyone but hey.... You can't have someone who uses you, breaks you down or any negativity in your life.