Hi WantToGrow. Hmm,i would say that may be more than ADD. I think your right about what you said. I was sexually attacked as a young kid. It effected me for awhile but then again it was an attack and not abuse. A lot of females have a hard time with intimacy. I was with a girl for eight years and she was raped as a kid and the last four to five years of our relationship we barely touched or kissed. (not on my part) She also has bipolar and post traumatic stress. I've had ADD my whole life. Diagnosed and everything. So yeah i would lean more on the dissociation and abuse. That's how my girlfriend was and she's not ADD. Oh well,i saw your post and thought i would mention a few things. Thanks