I think that's the mental illness talking...of course coddling may not be nessisary, however nothing wrong with getting support for mental health issues. If you try to just tough your way through it that can lead to burn out...I know this from experience because you can only suppress so much before it comes out some way. I might have completed college had I adressed my mental health concerns sooner and did a better job assessing what sort of stress i might endure in college but I pushed myself to just go off to another town and go to a state college rather than community...all my trying to be tough and just push through it without getting help and hoping It would just go away has only made matters worse.