I like that CaptainChao. lol
Seeker, we've tried couples counseling in the past and he just gets defensive and never likes the counselor if they support me in any way. I will say that in the past I've done some things in my manic states that he still holds resentment for but can't admit.
hvert, thanks. I think your are right about separating the two.
healingme4me, he doesn't see a therapist himself because he doesn't think he has a problem. He only sees me as the problem. Divorce has occurred to me and was very close to it in the past but really we can't financially manage alone. Ugh! Money, the root of all evil.
Fuzzy, thanks for you input.
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