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Originally Posted by toolman65
Seriously? You leave letters on the kitchen table for him to read because he won't let you finish your thoughts without interrupting ? That is dysfunctional on so many levels.
You are involved with an addict. Period. No matter how funny or charming or anything else, he is still an addict. An addict's primary relationship is with the addictive substance. Not you. You know this from experience.
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Writing letters have always been my main source of serious communication. It's not because of HIM, it's the way I prefer to express myself. I can state my feelings better without being interrupted during a conversation.
Once the letter has been read, then we sit down and discuss the issue(s).
Yes, I have had experience with this issue. This time my life isn't in danger and this man does love me very much. So, I'm trying to learn to cope and keep us together.
I do appreciate your feedback, thank you.
