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Old Dec 14, 2014, 10:30 AM
Anonymous37777
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I had another thought regarding this issue that will perhaps help you check internally as to whether his behavior is out of line and connected in an unhealthy way to your therapy. I mentioned in my post: I hope you're able to share with him at your next session what your feelings were regarding this current situation If you find yourself hesitant to talk about your feelings about this situation in your therapy, then you really need to consider that something is going off the rails between the two of you. You know well that when we hide ourselves and our thoughts in therapy it's usually something critical that needs to be opened up in the space between therapist and client.

If you feel the need to keep these feelings close to you and not open to both your therapist and yourself, then you need to ask yourself why this is the case? Are you afraid he might interpret your concern or hesitation in a negative way? That he might judge you as less "evolved" than he might want or expect at this point in therapy? Or that you are too conventional? If he is truly open to exploring the spaces within you and between the two of you, then he will welcome this conversation and your relationship will grow and expand. I'm not asking you to answer those questions here on the forum, just suggesting you might want to explore them for yourself.
Thanks for this!
precaryous, unaluna