I've had both experiences, so I think it depends more on finding the right therapist. Some do not give feedback as a way for the client to feel and discern for her/himself. You've been clear that you do better with the kind that offers validation. I think most people in therapy prefer that. It feels awful to think we're being disbelieved.

The therapist I'm seeing now is the first one who shows any kind of emotional reaction--it's not huge, but it's genuine. It's an interesting experience. I prefer it over the others who had blank stares.

I'm confused about that last paragraph/scene, though. Is that fantasy or what really happens in your therapy?