I think that's a good approach. It really is hard to know what drives the fear and reluctance to share. Maybe it varies at different times. Last week I told my therapist I felt so comfortable with her that I wondered if that's what therapy is supposed to be like, and she looked pained, as though I'd just said I had no idea that not all dogs maul their owners. That's not to say I won't run into some freezing up moments, but I think I'll be able to work through them better (fingers crossed). I hope things go well for you, as well.