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Originally Posted by Mastodon
I think this is so individual that it becomes meaningless to talk about humans as a group and whether they need other people or not. It would very difficult to live a life that did not depend on others for at least some of our food and shelter and other necessities. I agree with you to that extent, about biological necessity. But emotional dependence is not as straightforward and I am convinced that it can be possible to get to a point where we do not need emotional support from others - provided, of course, that we want to reach that point. I am not saying that it is something that fits everybody but I don't think it is unhealthy or unnatural.
[edited to add: Maybe this is simply wishful thinking on my behalf, but I do hope I'm right.]
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To me the fact that people who are neglected develop large psychological problems is a pretty good indication that people need each other. Also things like oxytocin release, and the fact that brain mapping reveals that large parts of the brain are dedicated to empathy, suggest that people are reliant upon one another. I don't think that means, however, that all people must be extremely social, but I do think that everyone needs human contact, love, support, and understanding. And that without those things people suffer tremendously.