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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37
Well, you said you are not in a relationship with him. Those first few dates are about getting to know one another and determine if you're compatible and if this might lead to a relationship. If he is not texting you back, it probably means he does not want to take things further. Yes, it hurts, but it's just the way things go when it comes to dating nowadays. It would probably be easier if he was up front about it instead of doing "the fade," but most people still use the "fade" approach because it is less confrontational. This is easier said than done, but it can sometimes help not to put too much of an emotional investment into those first few dates. Until there is a mutual declaration of interest and a relationship is established, it can be emotionally risky to invest too much.
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I hope you can read the answer posted before this. He said he felt so comfortable with me, like he only feels with his sister. We think we are compatible. We have said a lot of sweet things. Just before I told him I didn't want to be his friend anymore, he told me he hadn't felt so good and so happy in such a long time that he doesn't even know how long it's been. I kissed him on the forehead and I can swear we both felt so in love... Well, then the story of the post above.
We'll see what happens. For now, I can't afford to be so dramatic, cause I'm going through a really strong asthma attack that I can barely breathe, so I can't let myself turn into that paranoid anxoius girl. But what really confused me is that I believed everything was just fine! And what upsets me the most is that I need to stop feeling this way everytime any other guy stops texting/calling.