Thank you all for the responses! I have ruled out Raymond and Matt, purely because of their beliefs. Hamster-Bamster, I want to thank you particularly for your input. I am working on being okay with accepting that Chris and I just are not going to happen. It hurts a lot, but I'm trying to cope. Cody and I are continuing to build on our friendship. Neither one of us wants a relationship, though. We've cuddled, but I've not allowed him to kiss me. I, also, met another guy at the rink I skate at, but he's not really my type. Friendly, though. So, I have all of this organized chaos going on in my head. I'd say controlled chaos, but I'm not too sure about that, yet. :/ I am starting to see why I loved Cody all of those years ago. But I do want to remain single for a while. It gets frustrating at times, but I really do think it is the best option for me...