wow. just wow.

She obviously is suffering from one or more serious mental illnesses.

Delusional and Paranoid to start.

Soon, she will be telling you that if you leave, she won't be able to protect you from Terrorists or Ebola or the Easter Bunny.

Once she realizes that threats won't work, she will switch to bargaining , then pleading, then threats to self harm, etc. Be prepared.

The story you tell of her giving up her boyfriend to please her father i find very curious. I wouldn't be surprised if she carries a lot of resentment from that. In her mind, she probably thinks you should make the same concession.

Anyway,

Next time she starts arguing with you, AGREE with her and see what happens.

When she talks about getting a printout of your texts from the phone company (LOL!) simply say "well, good luck with that."

Another great deflection, courtesy of Dr. Phil is "How's that working for you?"

Stop engaging her and focus on your future.

As for this excuse about your project that can only be done on "her" computer....get real. Stop finding ways to empower her. Basic laptops aren't that expensive. If that is not an option, many libraries have computers available. Or, you could make the leap of faith and ask your ex to help.

If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing you need to do is stop digging