It is not unusual for one spouse to not understand the issues of the other when it comes to mental health issues. Even if they know the name of the diagnosis, most husbands or wives do not know anything about the illness itself unless you make it a point to teach them. Your husband is not alone and neither are you. Take him to your Therapist or pdoc and have them give him a lesson or two if he is willing to learn or just get him to Google it. At least that would be something.