To long, I'm in a long term relationship and my partner just has no sex drive..I'm still hoping she will come around, I still talk to her about it but it's always complicated. I also have times when I just don't care for it..so..eventually maybe we get around to it some day..when we finally have time to relax and spend quality time together..we have so many obligations, work on different schedules..weekends are for taking care of aging sick parent on both sides..ahhh